“I wish I’d had this book twenty years ago, as I was totally unprepared for the emotional roller coaster of caring for my mother. Ezra, the protagonist, shares his wild emotional ride with other elder caregivers looking for support. Together they wrestle with feelings of anger, guilt, resentment, compassion, and hope. I cried, laughed, and related to Ezra’s desire to do better by making internal promises to be more patient, kind and compassionate. Then confronting the harsh reality that keeping that promise is much harder than it looks! Botello reminds us: caregiving is a journey, not a destination. It’s not one day at a time. It’s one moment at a time.”